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This may be afflicted by personal consolation and instincts of doubts like has my lover really left me? What may be the cause? Such are just a few insecurities people who were once in love recall and question their move or appreciate their next step in life.
Now, let’s counter-check some selfish traits of exes who come back after love has gone sour.
- Ow! This other side ain’t as fun as I expected
After a breakup, people enter multiple relationships without even healing from the failed one. This would be because they want to prove to their ex that they got options and are organized.
As soon as another breakup evolves, things turn worse, and resort to the initial unsolved breakup. Here, many come back to heal and calm down their feelings.
2. Man, I left you to suffer, your new happiness sucks
If your new relationship is thriving, it hurts whomever you recently broke up with, in case they are stalking you. Here, the aim of coming back is to break the rhythm.
To strangle your new peace and joy, then leave you in regrets. A mistake here is when you dare reminisce the nice moment you had with this your once lover. It needs self-recognition, wisdom, and keenness. As soon as you entertain the cat and mouse games, boom! Their mission would have been accomplished.
3. I didn’t have enough of you
It is not easy for one who was in deep love to wake up one day to a heartbreaking message offline or via social media account, “Babe it is over, you’re too loving, that’s is smothering me (literally).”
Such kinda messages will never leave a person who was in love peacefully. They pierce and pass through veins painfully like calcium or salt in an open fresh wound. The person will try to resuscitate but be defeated by pain. They will come back to really try to get you back or get vivid valid information that led to the breakup.
4. It’s awfully lonely out here
In case you were too good, brilliant, kind, loving and supportive before the nasty breakup, your ex, it is a must, will come.
Here, the ex may be going through a hard harsh time in life and after confiscating all the friends in his/her life and seeing none greater than you, he/she will have no alternative but to come for you.
The return doesn’t mean reviving love but seeking emotional support and guidance. The ex here knows he/she’s the one who may be messed up with your love.
5. You didn’t do me good, I must settle the score
Before accepting any gift, receive the ex’s phone call or reply to a text, it is good to delay in responding to that.
Many exes may come back to settle scores especially if it is you who announced the breakup. They can’t admit or accept rejection as persons. Their presence is to win the breakup. Many return just to hurt you better than you did to them. To make you inferior. May use the texts, call recordings, or gifts, to shorten your ” horn” and never talk.
6. You’re too important to be with someone else other than me
Being loved because you’re a celebrity, work in a famous firm, have an admirable career, or possess some nice body or character is so tricky.
At most, this happens to women. After walking out of a relationship, may come just to feel the ego because they’ve looked for lover/s with your qualities but all in vain.
Their return is just to boost their ego in the company of friends. To praise you how you’re a surgeon, prolific journalist, or TDH( tall dark and handsome).
7. Damn! I badly miss the moments, though I hate you
This shows the ex never moved on completely. The ex has some photos you snapped together, has your nice gift like a hoodie, or has gone through the undeleted texts.
Some may have seen something good somewhere that goes hand in hand with you. To some extent, some just miss your beauty, voice, nature walks, or nice sex. This drives them to come back and feel their target. For this to happen, they haven’t met someone like you.
- By Hosea Namachanja
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